Relationships are the Law of Attraction in Action! – Darice Cairns. Evolution
Darice Cairns
The Art of Finding Truth, One Man's Journey Through Love, Life, Grief and Joy

Relationships are the best way to see the Law of Attraction in action.

Do you doubt whether you can establish a healthy relationship with another person?

You can learn a lot about yourself through your relationships with others?

If any of these thoughts resonate with you, then read on, my friend, because we will dive into the fantastic and inspiring world of relationships!

YOU determine the Quality of Your Relationships

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ALL relationships are a direct reflection of the type of energy you are radiating.  Relationships act like a mirror to the inner you; they show you who you are.

No matter what kind of relationship it is, whether it is intimate, loving, uncomfortable, challenging, casual, whatever it is, any relationship can evolve into something that is ultimately satisfying for you.

The clincher is how YOU feel about that connection, your ideas, opinions, thoughts, and whether you bring in others’ views and opinions.  The feeling is what defines your journey in all of your relationships.

You determine the quality of your relationships!

Stop Expecting Others to Make you Happy.

You are 100% responsible for everything in your life.  Furthermore, nothing outside of yourself will ever give you lasting love or happiness.  You are responsible for your love and happiness.  If you expect things from others, you set yourself up to be disappointed.

Remember – no one is responsible for your happiness – except you. 

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Appreciate everything, for better or for worse. This mindset will ‘allow’ things to come to you to experience them for what they are and not for what you expect them to be.

Dwell on the Positive

Every experience you live in is a stepping stone to greater clarity and greater satisfaction that helps you define better what you want in your life.

Your internal dialogue also directly determines the quality of your relationships.  If you choose thoughts and language that feel good, then your relationships will be very fulfilling regardless of what anyone else thinks.

Greater awareness and wisdom comes from knowing that every relationship is here specifically for you to learn and grow.

We are all co-creating, and the law of attraction brings us people with who we are a vibrational match. So if you are fearful of rejection and have abandonment issues, you will very likely attract someone into your life who will reject you and/or force you to deal with your abandonment issues by amplifying the very emotions you are so desperately aware of and ‘want’ to avoid.

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The Law of Attraction focuses on your deepest emotions and feelings around a certain issue and then magnifies that.  It can also do the same for incredibly blissful emotions and feelings.  It doesn’t discern or judge.

That is why it is so important to be mindful of what you are attracting.

Soothing issues and reaching for better feelings, thoughts and emotions will always bring better results than dwelling on negativity and constantly going over what you don’t want in life.

What you dwell on, you recreate again and again.

The Most Important Relationship is with Yourself

If we find that our relationships are turbulent and similar patterns develop with many different people, then it’s time to step back and strengthen the connection you have with ourselves.

The energy you are radiating is coming back to you in perhaps unpleasant ways. When you accept that you create everything in your reality, you will understand how futile it is to blame other people for not giving you better relationships.

You determine the quality of your relationships.  If your contacts are crappy, you need to get honest about your motives and ask why you are sending out mixed messages.  For example, do you tell people one thing or say one thing but think and act out completely different?

The basis of confusion at the heart of what bothers almost everybody about relationships is this:  you are offering a vibration, whatever it may be, and the law of attraction matches you up with people who are a match to that vibration.

When you are aware and take COMPLETE responsibility for what you are creating and accept that you are attracting what you are offering energetically, that is the first real step to getting off the blame game and looking honestly at yourself.

It means being truthful about what is happening in your relationships.

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Fun Activity!

Just for fun, try this exercise.  If you are struggling with a relationship and it is tense, you will likely have some things you adore about that person, but there will also be an overwhelming amount of stuff you don’t like about them.  Just for a few days, try to think and act upon only the things you adore about that person.

Amplify those things you adore about them and deemphasize the stuff you don’t like about them. Then watch the magic. Watch and see what happens.

You should see how you can turn this relationship around merely by changing what you choose to focus on about that person.

Be An Active Conscious Creator

As you evolve, feel and grow more into the essence of what you want in a relationship, you will appreciate more things, which is a beautiful way to create.  Actively choosing good feeling thoughts is how you create your reality.

If you are not vibrationally ready for your dream relationship, then it will bounce right off you – or you may meet them but not notice them at all. You then come away assuming that you did something wrong, or you are destined never to meet anyone. You then fixate on that and recreate it again and again.

Instead, try to stay focused on what works, don’t get so micro-focused on what doesn’t work.

Make it Happen

Watch how quickly the Law Of Attraction in action can change your life and relationships.

Thanks for visiting, and I hope this explains how The LAw Attraction really works in practical real lifeways.

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