Relationships are the best way to see how the Law of Attraction in action.

If you have ever struggled to connect with other people, that says a lot about the kind of energy you are radiating?

Do you doubt whether you can establish a healthy relationship with another person?

Did you know that you can learn a lot about yourself through your relationships with others?

If any of these thoughts resonate with you, then read on my friend because we are going to dive into the fantastic and inspiring world of relationships!

Your relationships ARE the Law of Attraction in action.

I want to share with you how to think differently about your relationships so you can accept them for what they are; a beautiful evolutionary path to your most profound awakening and happiness.

If you know a little about the Law of Attraction but struggle to understand it,  then look no further.

You determine the Quality of Your Relationships.

ALL relationships are a direct reflection of where you are at right now, energetically. Links are like a mirror to the inner you; they show you who you are.  Your relationships will always reflect your exact energy precisely. There is no Bull Shit there!

No matter what the relationship is, whether it is intimate, loving, uncomfortable, challenging, casual, whatever it is, any relationship can evolve into something that is ultimately satisfying for you.  The clincher is how YOU feel about the connection, your ideas, opinions, thoughts, and whether you bring in the views and opinions of others.  The feeling is what defines your journey in all of your relationships.

You determine the quality of your relationships!

Stop Expecting Others to Make you Happy.

You are 100% responsible for everything in your life.  Furthermore, on that same note, nothing outside of yourself will ever give you lasting love or happiness.  You are responsible for your love and happiness.  If you don’t get this genuinely, you will always be disappointed in other people and your life.

Remember – no one is responsible for your happiness – except you. 

Appreciate everything, for better or for worse. This mindset will ‘allow’ things to come to you so you can experience them for what they are and not for what you expect them to be.

Dwell on the Positive

Every experience that you live is a stepping stone to greater clarity and greater satisfaction that helps you to define better what it is you want in your life.

Your internal dialogue also directly determines the quality of your relationships.  If you choose thoughts and language that feel good, regardless of what anyone else thinks, then your relationships will be very fulfilling.  Greater awareness and wisdom comes from knowing that every relationship is here specifically for you to learn and grow.

You have to be stable in this because in the heat of an argument with a loved one, it is easy to forget that there is a golden nugget lesson here for you.  At that moment all you want to do is argue how right you are, assert yourself, get personal.  You must try hard to not dwell on thoughts that are not allowing you to evolve to better, purer, more energizing energy.

We are all co-creating, and the law of attraction brings to us people who we are a vibrational match to us.  With each interaction, we get more precise and more transparent about what we want and what we are looking for.

The Most Important Relationship is with Yourself

If we find that our relationships are turbulent and similar patterns develop with many different people, then it’s time to step back and strengthen the link you have with yourself.

The energy you are radiating is coming back to you in perhaps unpleasant ways. When you accept that you create everything in your reality, then you will understand how futile it is to blame other people for not giving you better relationships. You have to step back, take a breather, pray, pause, reflect and get calm again.

It is all up to you! You determine the quality of your relationships.  If your contacts are crappy, then you need to get honest about your motives and ask why you are sending out mixed messages.  For example, do you tell people one thing or say one thing but think and act out something completely different?

The basis of confusion at the heart of what bothers almost everybody about relationships is this:  you are offering a vibration, whatever it may be, and the law of attraction is matching you up with people who are a match to that vibration.

When you are aware and take COMPLETE responsibility for what you are creating and accept that you are attracting what you are offering energetically, that is the first real step to getting off the blame game and looking honestly at yourself. It means being truthful about what is happening in your relationships.

Fun Activity!

Just for fun, try this exercise.  If you are struggling with a relationship and it is tense, you will likely have some things you do adore about that person, but there will also be an overwhelming amount of stuff you don’t like about them.  Try, just for a few days to think and act upon only the things you adore about that person.

Amplify those things you adore about them and deemphasis the stuff you don’t like about them. Then watch the magic. Watch and see what happens.

You should be able to see how you can turn this relationship around merely by changing what you choose to focus on about that person. To view this work quickly, this works best with someone you see every day or talk to often.

Be An Active Conscious Creator

As you evolve, feel and grow more into the essence of your what you want in a dream relationship, you will appreciate more things, and this is a beautiful way to create.  Actively choosing good feeling thoughts is how you create your reality.

Think about it, if we truly do create our reality (which we do), why would you NOT try to create beautiful, loving thoughts about other people, even not so pleasant people, and just see what happens.  You will be pleasantly surprised.

You will start to see and feel a shift for the better.

If you are not vibrationally ready for your dream relationship, then it will bounce right off you. You then come away assuming that you did something inappropriate or you think your partner did something wrong, and you fixate on that!

Instead, try to stay focused on what works, don’t get so micro-focused on what doesn’t work.  Tell yourself that relationships are the best real-life example of the Law of Attraction in action.

Stop Expecting Others to Make you Happy.

You are 100% responsible for everything in your life.  Furthermore, on that same note, nothing outside of yourself will ever give you lasting love or happiness.  You are responsible for your love and happiness.  If you don’t get this genuinely, you will always be disappointed in other people and your life.

Remember – no one is responsible for your happiness – except you. 

Appreciate everything, for better or for worse. This mindset will ‘allow’ things to come to you so you can experience them for what they are and not for what you expect them to be.

Make it Happen

If you want to see how quickly you can create change in your life, use your relationships to understand the Law of Attraction in action.

Share your own experiences with the Law of Attraction in action below. I’d love to hear from you!

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