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    7 Things That Will Make You Irresistible to Men

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    Categories: Love, Men and Women, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Not too long ago, I wrote a popular blog called, ‘6 Things Every Woman Wants from her Man.’

    Since that post, men have been asking me to write one for them!

    This is a topic every man secretly wants you women out there to know.

    It isn’t what you may think, so stop what you are doing and focus on what really counts. No need to buy anything!

    Want to know what men really really want… here it is!

    In order of importance none the less – you’re welcome!

    1. Your Smile!

    Your smile is the most powerful tool you have, to get a man to notice you. Now a really good smile will show honestly what is going on inside of you.

    It isn’t something you can fake!

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    How to Rise Above Recurring Family Conflict

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    Categories: Emotions, Family, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Love, Relationships, Truth

    Family.

    I think it fair to say that we all have, at one time or another, drama in our family.

    Recurring issues and explosions can keep you stuck in a pattern that doesn’t help anyone, especially you.

    Are you currently disconnected from a family member or have been in the past?

    Are you struggling to come to terms with family relationships?

    Do you get so frustrated dealing with family that you have walked away, or even cut off relations with certain family members?

    Or maybe, you feel like an outsider in your own family?

    Hard as you have tried to fit in… your blood tribe just isn’t… your tribe.

    Can’t live with them…  can’t live without them!

    Family relations are perhaps the most challenging relationships we will ever deal with.

    Family can bring the best out of us and the worst.

    Why?

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    6 Things Every Woman Wants From Her Man

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    Categories: Love, Men and Women, Relationships, Sexual Energy, Truth

    These are secrets that women tend to keep to themselves.

    I’m sharing this because I know you guys try your best to give your woman what she wants.  But at times it either falls short or falls totally off the mark.

    Listen up and be wiser for it and watch it transform your relationship.

    It isn’t easy being in a relationship, with the opposite sex.  Sure it goes amazingly well in the beginning, but when the fire dies down, reality sets in.

    Then what?

    It is super easy to get complacent.  Easy to let things go.

    Being in a relationship long term means being more than you ever thought you could be AND giving at least 60 % all the time.

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    How to Feel Better After a Break Up

    Categories: Emotions, Law of Attraction, Love, Personal Growth, Relationships, Spiritualism, Truth

    Ever been dumped?

    Sure you have!

    Ever left a loved one?

    No matter which way you look at it, break ups are shitty.

    They hurt, often make you question your worthiness and they can make you feel very much rejected.

    You feel it, whether you are the one who was left, or you are the one who leaves.

    Leavers or lefters  … no matter which way you look at it, those emotions can feel REALLY uncomfortable and consuming.

    Yet, let’s get that all into perspective!

    You are gonna feel so much better after reading this!

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    What to Do When You Feel Totally Stuck

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    Categories: Emotions, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Personal Growth, Truth

    Are you seeing a pattern repeating itself in your life?

    Is this a pattern you’d really rather NOT see again and again?

    The characters, places and circumstances change, yet it’s the same old pattern that keeps showing up.

    Have you ever had the uncomfortable feeling that you have ‘been here before’?

    Do you know the changes you need to make .. but you keep talking yourself out of it?

    Does the thought of change send shivers down your spine?

    Well fellow traveller through life, if any of this strikes a chord, then come and take a journey with me and get yourself movin’ and groovin’ again.

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    Are you a Giver or Taker?

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    Categories: Emotions, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Find out your tendency towards being either a giver, taker or maybe you are a healthy balance between the two.

    Too much giving encourages the victim or martyr in you.

    Too much taking disconnects you from other people and indicates a deep insecurity within.

    Like anything in life, a healthy balance between the two is what is best. 

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    The Truth about Truth

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    Categories: Emotions, Family, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Love, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Want to get to know who you really are?

    Want to know the ONE thing that brings all things together in your life?

    Want to know how to heal yourself?

    Want to know how to live a more empowered life?

    Want to be REAL!?

    Read on to find out more about the one thing that WILL alter your life for the better and… even bring our world into alignment.

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    The Emotional Scale and How to Move Up in Vibration

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    Categories: Emotions, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Personal Growth, Spiritualism, Truth

    Have you ever wondered what the Emotional Scale is and why it is important to understand?

    Have you ever felt uncomfortable feeling your emotions?

    Do you consider emotions to be a grey area of confusion?

    Have you ever been stunned at how your emotions just take over leaving you feeling lost and exhausted?

    Would you like to have more control over your emotions and use them constructively to heal yourself?

    If any of these ring a chord with you then read on my friend, cause this information will really help you find peace with your emotions.

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    How to Master Forgiveness

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    Categories: Emotions, Family, Law of Attraction, Personal Growth, Relationships, Spiritualism, Truth

    Does the thought of forgiveness seem unreachable and maybe even ridiculous?

    Have you ever hung onto resentment for months, even years?

    Ever tell yourself that you know you should forgive someone, but it hurt so much you can’t seem to get there?

    Or maybe you think true forgiveness is for saints.

    If any of these statements resonate with you, hang on my friend cause I got some juicy information for you!

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