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    Your Life is Your Spiritual Walk

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    Categories: Change, Life Journeys, Personal Growth, Spiritualism, Truth

    Are you interested in having or maintaining a spiritual walk or practice in your life?

    Do you desire to reach a peaceful balance in your life but struggle with everyday annoyances?

    Have you ever looked at the life of a monk, and were intrigued by their spiritual devotion?

    Ever wondered how you could have a peaceful life, like a monk?

    Did you ever want to just run away from your life and live in seclusion?

    If you like to have a more balanced life, but just don’t know how to attain that in your current life, then this blog is definitely for you!

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    Why Love Isn’t Enough

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    Categories: Change, Emotions, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Love, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Is it true that all you need in this life and this world is love and everything will fall into place?

    Will Love bring you happiness and fulfillment?

    In my experience, we need something much deeper than love to make the world a happier place and to make your life more fulfilling.

    If these statements were true, this world would be a much safer and happier place to be in.

    So what are we doing wrong?

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    Connecting with Nature and Why it Feels so Good!

    Categories: Career, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Nature, Personal Growth, Truth

    Want to know the best way to feel better almost instantly?

    Have you been for a walk in the forest recently?

    No matter how stressed you might be, getting out in nature will make you feel so much better.

    One of my most memorable careers with was training and working as a Junior geologist.

    Image walking through beautiful forests every day.

    The best part of this training was being able to see all the wild animals that live in the forest.

    Do you want to connect with something that will bring balance and peace into your life?

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    Reconnecting with a Life Dream, a very personal recount

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    Categories: Change, divorce, Life Journeys, Nature, Personal Growth, Relationships, Spiritualism, Truth

    In 2012, nearly 7 tears ago, I returned to Canada after being away for 14 years.

    I was determined to make my dream come true.

    That dream started long before I even returned to Canada.

    My dream was to live close to nature and connect deeply with my inner self.

    I quit my job overseas, and came back home to make my dream a reality.

    7 years on I look back now and wonder, what the hell happened?!

    How can a dream I nurtured for so long, get lost?

    As I sit with the disappointment of an unrealized dream, I realize that not all is lost.

    Infact, quite the opposite.

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    Why the Kavanaugh and Ford Case is a Win-Win!

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    Categories: Change, Emotions, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Men and Women, Truth

    Have you been following the Kavanaugh/Ford Case?

    Do you view this case as a huge win for women and a terrible injustice for men?

    What are your thoughts on this case?

    What is the best way to deal with cases of sexual harassment allegations that happened decades ago?

    Can you accept that the details actually don’t really matter at all?

    If you are open the idea that we are experiencing a massive energy shift through this case… then read on my friend.

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    How to Make a Good Decision When You Feel Stuck

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    Categories: Change, Life Journeys, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Do you have a BIG decision to make, right now?

    Are you feeling totally stuck and not able to make a decision yet know in your gut you HAVE to make this decision?

    Are you afraid that your decision will affect other people you love and that is stopping you from moving forward?

    Are you paralyzed by making a decision because you just don’t know what to do?

    If any of these statements relate to you at the moment, then this blog is for you!

    Read on and find out how to make a GOOD decision when you are feeling totally and utterly STUCK! 

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    Are You Lying to Yourself?

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    Categories: Emotions, Family, Relationships, Truth

    Do people disappoint you again and again?

    Are you desiring a deep connection with others but just can’t seem to get there?

    Are you exhausted and feel drained around people?

    Do you disappoint the people closest to you and you either don’t care or understand why?

    Do you find it easier to deal with life by using substances to numb your thoughts and feelings?

    Deep down in, in rare moments you do admit that you are very unhappy.

    If any of these ring true for you, read on and find out how to get to a better place.

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    Do You Feel Like a Failure?

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    Categories: Career, Law of Attraction, Truth

    Have you ever felt like a failure?

    Sure you have! And that’s good!

    Life just would not be life without failures to remind us how far we have grown.

    Failing means that you are on the path to success!

    But really!  How do you feel about failure?

    Do you view it as a humiliation or as a path to success?

    Well, most of us are not comfortable with failure.

    I certainly am not comfortable with failure, but over the years I’ve come to make peace with this really powerful emotion.

    Let me tell you, I have had major big failures in my past.

    I want to present the idea of failure in a new light, so listen up…

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    I want to leave my partner, what should I do?

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    Categories: Emotions, Love, Relationships, Truth

    Are you thinking of leaving your relationship?

    Are you so frustrated with your wife or husband, boyfriend or girlfriend, or your partner that you just can’t imagine staying any longer?

    Are you at a breaking point?

    Have you considered leaving for some time now?

    If you are thinking of leaving your relationship, read this blog first!

    I have some advice on how to improve your relationship immediately AND from the inside out.

    I hope you are all ears… cause I wrote this post especially for YOU!

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    Who am I… Really?

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    Categories: Law of Attraction, Personal Growth, Relationships, Spiritualism, Truth

    Ever wonder who you really are?

    Will knowing who you really am, help you to find your purpose in life?

    Is the real you, your thoughts or something deeper?

    Why are we obsessed with defining who we are to the outside world and to ourselves?

    Is the real you evolving or is it the same from birth to death?

    Well, if you have pondered on any of these thoughts, then you are in the right place!

    Read on …

    There are actually two of you living in one physical body.

    At least this is true for most of us.

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    10 Simple Questions to Test Your Spiritual Knowledge!

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    Categories: Law of Attraction, Spiritualism, Truth

    There are a lot of high calibre words being thrown around today to describe deeply spiritual experiences.

    Have you ever asked yourself what do all these spiritual words and concepts mean?

    What is the difference between your ‘spirit’ and your  ‘soul’?

    What exactly is ‘evil’ and ‘sin’?

    What is the meaning of ‘Prayer’ and ‘Grace’?

    What is the best way to find your purpose and truth?

    What is the most powerful asset we have in life?

    Take this quick simple quiz to test your knowledge of the most commonly used terms in spiritual texts and media, to see where you stand.

    Have fun…!

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    The Truth About Judgement

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    Categories: Emotions, Family, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Have you ever felt the weight of ‘judgement’ come down on you?

    Have you ever been upset, frustrated, or irritated by what others say and think about your actions and decisions in life?

    Have you ever wanted to run away from pressures from loved ones and family because they don ‘t approve of your actions?

    Ever been the judge… and judged others for things you feel are ‘wrong’.

    Sure you have!

    If you are human and live on planet earth, you will know about judgements all too well.

    If judgement bothers you, has ever knocked you off course from who you really are or you have dished out your fair share…. then this blog is for you my friend!

    Read on and be amazed at how releasing judgements from your life is going to change your life around for the better…

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