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    Death of a Narcissist

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    Categories: Poetry, Relationships

    If you have ever had to deal with a narcissist, you will know how painful it is and how detrimental the relationship is to your soul.

    But joyful is the day you reclaim yourself, take back your power and cut the cord and know that NO ONE will ever abuse you like that again.

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    Finding Peace After a Toxic Relationship

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    Categories: Change, Personal Growth, Relationships

    If you feel like you have been used and abused mentally and emotionally by someone close to you then….

    Here are 6 steps to finding peace after a toxic relationship and ways to be sure you never get stuck in one again.

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    How to Feel Better After a Breakup

    Categories: Emotions, Personal Growth, Relationships

    Are you feeling awful after a breakup and wondering how to work through all the emotions you are feeling?

    Breakups feel terrible, no doubt about that! and we have been through at least one in our lifetime.

    I have some sure-fire ways for you to not only feel better but to also think differently about the whole things as well.

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    Are You an Outsider?

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    Categories: Life Journeys, Personal Growth, Relationships, Self Empowerment

    Do you feel like an outsider in your own family and community?

    Have you struggled with being accepted by the very people you love?

    What does it mean to be an outsider anyway?

    If you are you a loner, non-conformer, live on the outside of the mainstream, think outside the box, are alternative, then you are in the right place!

    Do you simply not fit into ‘normal’ situations?

    Time to feel your power and embrace your uniqueness…

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    Why Love Isn’t Enough

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    Categories: Emotions, Love, Personal Growth, Relationships

    Do you believe that ‘Love is all you need’ to be happy and feel fulfilled?

    Maybe you believe that ‘Love makes the world go round’?

    Have your previous love relationships been all you ever needed?

    I suspect not!

    Love isn’t enough to complete happiness. 

    Find out more by reading on.

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    How to Rebuild Your Life After Failed Dreams and Lost Hopes Take Away Your Joy

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    Categories: Life Journeys, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    This is a very personal blog, maybe too personal.

    But I am sure I am not the only person in this world who has had to or maybe who is trying to rebuild their life after things just don’t go your way. 

    Things that don’t go your way can be a dream, a love, a job, a business, a friend, a loss of health, whatever it is, it left you and you wonder if you will ever get your joy back. 

    Well, I can tell you honestly that you can rebuild your life and get your joy back.

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    Relationships are the Law of Attraction in Action!

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    Categories: Family, Law of Attraction, Personal Growth, Relationships

    Relationships are the best way to see how the Law of Attraction in action.

    If you have ever struggled to connect with other people, that says a lot about the kind of energy you are radiating?

    Do you doubt whether you can establish a healthy relationship with another person?

    did you know that you can learn a lot about yourself through your relationships with others?

    If any of these thoughts resonate with you, then read on my friend because we are going to dive into the amazing and inspiring world of relationships!

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    Are You Lying to Yourself and how to know?

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    Categories: Family, Relationships, Truth

    Do you know when you are lying to yourself?

    Are you desiring a deep connection with others but just can’t seem to get there?

    Do you disappoint the people closest to you and you either don’t care or don’t understand why?

    Do you find it easier to deal with life by using substances to numb your thoughts and feelings?

    Knowing when and why you lie to yourself will help you open your heart of love and acceptance of yourself.

    Here’s how…

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    I want to leave my partner, what should I do?

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    Categories: Emotions, Love, Relationships, Truth

    Are you thinking of leaving your relationship?

    Are you so frustrated with your wife or husband, boyfriend or girlfriend, or your partner that you just can’t imagine staying any longer?

    Are you at a breaking point?

    Have you considered leaving for some time now?

    If you are thinking of leaving your relationship, read this blog first!

    I have some advice on how to improve your relationship immediately AND from the inside out.

    I hope you are all ears… cause I wrote this post especially for YOU!

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    Who am I… Really?

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    Categories: Law of Attraction, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Ever wonder who you really are?

    Will knowing who you really am, help you to find your purpose in life?

    Is the real you, your thoughts or something deeper?

    Why are we obsessed with defining who we are to the outside world and to ourselves?

    Is the real you evolving or is it the same from birth to death?

    Well, if you have pondered on any of these thoughts, then you are in the right place!

    Read on …

    There are actually two of you living in one physical body.

    At least this is true for most of us.

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    The Truth About Judgement

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    Categories: Family, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Have you ever felt the weight of ‘judgement’ come down on you?

    Have you ever been upset, frustrated, or irritated by what others say and think about your actions and decisions in life?

    Have you ever wanted to run away from pressures from loved ones and family because they don ‘t approve of your actions?

    Ever been the judge… and judged others for things you feel are ‘wrong’.

    Sure you have!

    If you are human and live on planet earth, you will know about judgements all too well.

    If judgement bothers you, has ever knocked you off course from who you really are or you have dished out your fair share…. then this blog is for you my friend!

    Read on and be amazed at how releasing judgements from your life is going to change your life around for the better…

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    7 Things That Will Make You Irresistible to Men

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    Categories: Love, Men and Women, Relationships

    Want to know what makes you irresistible to men?  

    It isn’t what you may think!

    No need to buy anything! In fact, relax and just be yourself.

    Want to know what men really want… here it is!

    In order of importance none the less – you’re welcome!

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