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    Are You an Outsider?

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    Categories: Change, Emotions, Family, Life Journeys, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Do you feel like an Outsider in Your own Family?

    Have you struggled with being accepted by the very people you love?

    Do you often wonder how and why you ended up in the situations you are in?

    Are you a loner, non-conformer, live on the outside of the mainstream, think outside the box, are alternative? Basically, you are… different.

    Do you simply not fit into ‘normal’ situations?

    If any of this resonates with you then this blog is for you!

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    Your Ticket to Freedom is Here!

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    Categories: Change, Family, Life Journeys, Personal Growth, Relationships

    Do you feel drained and tired?

    Do you have a tendency of getting caught up in drama?

    Are you always running around for other people?

    Do you blame others for your lack of sleep, energy, love, money…

    If you said yes to any one of these things, you may need to unplug from the outside world.

    Read on and find out more…

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    A Gift for You this Christmas, Three Magic Words

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    Categories: Life Journeys, Love, Personal Growth, Relationships, Spiritualism, Truth

    I have so much gratitude to all my readers who have been supporting the message I have been writing about over the last year.

    As the holiday season approaches I want to share with you, this special gift.

    I want to share with you a little but powerful gem, that is the only way to truly live an empowered and authentic life.

    I’ve written about it in various ways, but to bring all those blogs down into three simple words, is my gift to you today.

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    Why Love Isn’t Enough

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    Categories: Change, Emotions, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Love, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Is it true that all you need in this life and this world is love and everything will fall into place?

    Will Love bring you happiness and fulfillment?

    In my experience, we need something much deeper than love to make the world a happier place and to make your life more fulfilling.

    If these statements were true, this world would be a much safer and happier place to be in.

    So what are we doing wrong?

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    Reconnecting with a Life Dream, a very personal recount

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    Categories: Change, divorce, Life Journeys, Nature, Personal Growth, Relationships, Spiritualism, Truth

    In 2012, nearly 7 tears ago, I returned to Canada after being away for 14 years.

    I was determined to make my dream come true.

    That dream started long before I even returned to Canada.

    My dream was to live close to nature and connect deeply with my inner self.

    I quit my job overseas, and came back home to make my dream a reality.

    7 years on I look back now and wonder, what the hell happened?!

    How can a dream I nurtured for so long, get lost?

    As I sit with the disappointment of an unrealized dream, I realize that not all is lost.

    Infact, quite the opposite.

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    How to Make a Good Decision When You Feel Stuck

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    Categories: Change, Life Journeys, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Do you have a BIG decision to make, right now?

    Are you feeling totally stuck and not able to make a decision yet know in your gut you HAVE to make this decision?

    Are you afraid that your decision will affect other people you love and that is stopping you from moving forward?

    Are you paralyzed by making a decision because you just don’t know what to do?

    If any of these statements relate to you at the moment, then this blog is for you!

    Read on and find out how to make a GOOD decision when you are feeling totally and utterly STUCK! 

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    Relationships are the Law of Attraction in Action!

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    Categories: Family, Law of Attraction, Love, Men and Women, Personal Growth, Relationships

    Do you sometimes struggle to connect with other people?

    Do relationships scare you?

    Do you doubt whether you can establish a healthy relationship with another person?

    Are you open to the fact that you learn a lot about yourself through your relationships with others?

    Would you like to make more sense out of the value of relationships and have better relationships?

    If any of these thoughts resonate with you, then read on my friend because we are going dive into the amazing and inspiring life challenge of relationships.

    I want to share with you how to think differently about your relationships so you can accept them for what they are; a beautiful evolutionary path to your deepest awakening and happiness.

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    Are You Lying to Yourself?

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    Categories: Emotions, Family, Relationships, Truth

    Do people disappoint you again and again?

    Are you desiring a deep connection with others but just can’t seem to get there?

    Are you exhausted and feel drained around people?

    Do you disappoint the people closest to you and you either don’t care or understand why?

    Do you find it easier to deal with life by using substances to numb your thoughts and feelings?

    Deep down in, in rare moments you do admit that you are very unhappy.

    If any of these ring true for you, read on and find out how to get to a better place.

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    Where Do You Stand When it Comes to Money?

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    Categories: Emotions, Family, Love, Money, Personal Growth, Relationships

    I like to share with you today a story about money.

    Money will honestly show you, who you really are.

    For example, how will you act when money comes your way?  Will it make you lose yourself? Will it distance you from your own blood?  Or will it bring you joy and connection with those around you?

    Money is a great and powerful catalyst.

    It can either enslave you or free you.

    I like to explore one side of money that is very sad but I offer it here so we can explore, how money can and will shape and change you my friend?

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    I want to leave my partner, what should I do?

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    Categories: Emotions, Love, Relationships, Truth

    Are you thinking of leaving your relationship?

    Are you so frustrated with your wife or husband, boyfriend or girlfriend, or your partner that you just can’t imagine staying any longer?

    Are you at a breaking point?

    Have you considered leaving for some time now?

    If you are thinking of leaving your relationship, read this blog first!

    I have some advice on how to improve your relationship immediately AND from the inside out.

    I hope you are all ears… cause I wrote this post especially for YOU!

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    Who am I… Really?

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    Categories: Law of Attraction, Personal Growth, Relationships, Spiritualism, Truth

    Ever wonder who you really are?

    Will knowing who you really am, help you to find your purpose in life?

    Is the real you, your thoughts or something deeper?

    Why are we obsessed with defining who we are to the outside world and to ourselves?

    Is the real you evolving or is it the same from birth to death?

    Well, if you have pondered on any of these thoughts, then you are in the right place!

    Read on …

    There are actually two of you living in one physical body.

    At least this is true for most of us.

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    The Truth About Judgement

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    Categories: Emotions, Family, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Have you ever felt the weight of ‘judgement’ come down on you?

    Have you ever been upset, frustrated, or irritated by what others say and think about your actions and decisions in life?

    Have you ever wanted to run away from pressures from loved ones and family because they don ‘t approve of your actions?

    Ever been the judge… and judged others for things you feel are ‘wrong’.

    Sure you have!

    If you are human and live on planet earth, you will know about judgements all too well.

    If judgement bothers you, has ever knocked you off course from who you really are or you have dished out your fair share…. then this blog is for you my friend!

    Read on and be amazed at how releasing judgements from your life is going to change your life around for the better…

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