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    Self-Love versus Self-Indulgence

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    Categories: Life Journeys, Love, Personal Growth

    Are you doing your best to be healthy, spiritually aligned, do regular yoga and/or maybe even meditate?

    Do you feel that something is missing in your spiritual practice and you don’t quite know why?

    You have no doubt heard of how important it is to show yourself self-love.

    But, do you really know what self-love is?

    I use to think that self-love was going to the spa, pampering myself, and giving myself well-deserved treats, while I lost all sense of myself in a very stressful job.

    That is not self-love at all!

    Watch this video to get clear on the differences between self-love and self-indulgence and shift your focus from doing ‘stuff’ to connecting more deeply with the real you.

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    Are You Romantic?

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    Categories: Emotions, Love, Personal Growth

    Being romantic is very attractive!

    Romance is the spice of life.

    If you are looking for a partner or want to keep the flames burning with your current relationship, romance is the way to go!

    Take this short quiz to find out if you are romantic or if you need some work in this department.

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    Who am I… Really?

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    Categories: Law of Attraction, Personal Growth, Relationships, Spiritualism, Truth

    Ever wonder who you really are?

    Will knowing who you really am, help you to find your purpose in life?

    Is the real you, your thoughts or something deeper?

    Why are we obsessed with defining who we are to the outside world and to ourselves?

    Is the real you evolving or is it the same from birth to death?

    Well, if you have pondered on any of these thoughts, then you are in the right place!

    Read on …

    There are actually two of you living in one physical body.

    At least this is true for most of us.

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    The Truth About Judgement

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    Categories: Emotions, Family, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Have you ever felt the weight of ‘judgement’ come down on you?

    Have you ever been upset, frustrated, or irritated by what others say and think about your actions and decisions in life?

    Have you ever wanted to run away from pressures from loved ones and family because they don ‘t approve of your actions?

    Ever been the judge… and judged others for things you feel are ‘wrong’.

    Sure you have!

    If you are human and live on planet earth, you will know about judgements all too well.

    If judgement bothers you, has ever knocked you off course from who you really are or you have dished out your fair share…. then this blog is for you my friend!

    Read on and be amazed at how releasing judgements from your life is going to change your life around for the better…

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    7 Things That Will Make You Irresistible to Men

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    Categories: Love, Men and Women, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Not too long ago, I wrote a popular blog called, ‘6 Things Every Woman Wants from her Man.’

    Since that post, men have been asking me to write one for them!

    This is a topic every man secretly wants you women out there to know.

    It isn’t what you may think, so stop what you are doing and focus on what really counts. No need to buy anything!

    Want to know what men really really want… here it is!

    In order of importance none the less – you’re welcome!

    1. Your Smile!

    Your smile is the most powerful tool you have, to get a man to notice you. Now a really good smile will show honestly what is going on inside of you.

    It isn’t something you can fake!

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    Top 3 Affordable Retreats For a Complete Detox

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    Categories: Health, Personal Growth

    Looking for a great and affordable Detox Retreat?

    Are you really serious about Detoxing?

    Interested in a detox that includes a Colonics?

    Are you feeling you need a special kind of holiday that will rejuvenate your soul?

    Feeling drained, exhausted and all round blah?

    Want a nice easy list of top places to go to unwind and get super healthy?

    Then this blog is for you my friend!  Read on…

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    How to Feel Better After a Break Up

    Categories: Emotions, Law of Attraction, Love, Personal Growth, Relationships, Spiritualism, Truth

    Ever been dumped?

    Sure you have!

    Ever left a loved one?

    No matter which way you look at it, break ups are shitty.

    They hurt, often make you question your worthiness and they can make you feel very much rejected.

    You feel it, whether you are the one who was left, or you are the one who leaves.

    Leavers or lefters  … no matter which way you look at it, those emotions can feel REALLY uncomfortable and consuming.

    Yet, let’s get that all into perspective!

    You are gonna feel so much better after reading this!

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    What to Do When You Feel Totally Stuck

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    Categories: Emotions, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Personal Growth, Truth

    Are you seeing a pattern repeating itself in your life?

    Is this a pattern you’d really rather NOT see again and again?

    The characters, places and circumstances change, yet it’s the same old pattern that keeps showing up.

    Have you ever had the uncomfortable feeling that you have ‘been here before’?

    Do you know the changes you need to make .. but you keep talking yourself out of it?

    Does the thought of change send shivers down your spine?

    Well fellow traveller through life, if any of this strikes a chord, then come and take a journey with me and get yourself movin’ and groovin’ again.

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    6 Books that Will Make Your Soul Sing and Soar

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    Categories: Personal Growth, Spiritualism

    Are you growing tired of looking and searching endlessly for answers to life’s bigger and deeper questions?

    Is the current new age movement making your eyes glaze over because it really doesn’t go deep enough for you anymore?

    Have you been searching for a long time now, for spiritual answers, that get to the core of who you are – your soul?

    Can you stand comfortably in your stillness?

    Are you ready to change your belief system such that you shift your power from outside of yourself to inside of yourself?

    Are you ready to let your soul emerge and let your ego rest?

    Want some profound reading material that will take you to a whole new level of mystical understanding?

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    Are you a Giver or Taker?

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    Categories: Emotions, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Find out your tendency towards being either a giver, taker or maybe you are a healthy balance between the two.

    Too much giving encourages the victim or martyr in you.

    Too much taking disconnects you from other people and indicates a deep insecurity within.

    Like anything in life, a healthy balance between the two is what is best. 

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    The Truth about Truth

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    Categories: Emotions, Family, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Love, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Want to get to know who you really are?

    Want to know the ONE thing that brings all things together in your life?

    Want to know how to heal yourself?

    Want to know how to live a more empowered life?

    Want to be REAL!?

    Read on to find out more about the one thing that WILL alter your life for the better and… even bring our world into alignment.

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    10 Strong Qualities of a REAL Woman

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    Categories: Goddess Within, Men and Women, Personal Growth, Relationships, Sexual Energy

    Are You a REAL woman?

    What is a REAL woman?

    What does it take to be a REAL Woman?

    Are you a REAL woman or a fabrication of something you hope to be?

    Are you a man looking for a REAL woman?

    Is it possible to become a REAL woman or are they just born that way?

    Are there any good examples of REAL women in society in 2018?

    Do you wish you were a REAL woman, but not sure what you’re aiming for?

    If you have ever wondered about any of these statements, whether you are a woman or a man, then read on my friend… and meet the REAL woman!

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