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    Welcome 2019, Feelin’ Good Is Good Enough for Me

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    Categories: Celebrations, Life Journeys, Personal Growth

    I have a verse stuck in my head, “Freedom is just another word for nothin’ left to lose…”, from the song, ‘Me and Bobby McGee’, by Janis Joplin.

    That song is the theme for this coming New Year 2019.

    I could hope for prosperity, pray for more money, aim for more proof of my worthiness, fewer wrinkles and more energy… but this year I’m gonna put ALL aspirations aside.

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    Why the Law of Attraction is NOT Working for You

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    Categories: Law of Attraction, Personal Growth, Truth

    We have all met people who are joyous, wallowing in their energy and all their amazing manifestations.

    They manifest new jobs, relationships, and even money!

    Damn it!

    Some people seem to manifest exactly what they want and then some.

    Have you tried to manifest and use the Law of Attraction in your life, but keep coming up empty handed?

    Does the effort make you more frustrated and make you feel like you are a manifesting failure?

    If so, then this blog is specifically for you!

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    Merry Christmas 2018, Stay True to You!

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    Categories: Celebrations, Life Journeys, Personal Growth

    Merry Christmas for 2018 to all my readers now and in the coming year 2019.

    You are amazing!

    Everything is in your hands. The world, your world, your family, your friends, your life, YOU!

    As 2018 comes to a close and we embark on another year, I pray that you come into your power and create from the most authentic you.

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    A Gift for You this Christmas, Three Magic Words

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    Categories: Life Journeys, Love, Personal Growth, Relationships, Spiritualism, Truth

    I have so much gratitude to all my readers who have been supporting the message I have been writing about over the last year.

    As the holiday season approaches I want to share with you, this special gift.

    I want to share with you a little but powerful gem, that is the only way to truly live an empowered and authentic life.

    I’ve written about it in various ways, but to bring all those blogs down into three simple words, is my gift to you today.

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    Your Life is Your Spiritual Walk

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    Categories: Change, Life Journeys, Personal Growth, Spiritualism, Truth

    Are you interested in having or maintaining a spiritual walk or practice in your life?

    Do you desire to reach a peaceful balance in your life but struggle with everyday annoyances?

    Have you ever looked at the life of a monk, and were intrigued by their spiritual devotion?

    Ever wondered how you could have a peaceful life, like a monk?

    Did you ever want to just run away from your life and live in seclusion?

    If you like to have a more balanced life, but just don’t know how to attain that in your current life, then this blog is definitely for you!

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    Why Love Isn’t Enough

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    Categories: Change, Emotions, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Love, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Is it true that all you need in this life and this world is love and everything will fall into place?

    Will Love bring you happiness and fulfillment?

    In my experience, we need something much deeper than love to make the world a happier place and to make your life more fulfilling.

    If these statements were true, this world would be a much safer and happier place to be in.

    So what are we doing wrong?

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    Connecting with Nature and Why it Feels so Good!

    Categories: Career, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Nature, Personal Growth, Truth

    Want to know the best way to feel better almost instantly?

    Have you been for a walk in the forest recently?

    No matter how stressed you might be, getting out in nature will make you feel so much better.

    One of my most memorable careers with was training and working as a Junior geologist.

    Image walking through beautiful forests every day.

    The best part of this training was being able to see all the wild animals that live in the forest.

    Do you want to connect with something that will bring balance and peace into your life?

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    Reconnecting with a Life Dream, a very personal recount

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    Categories: Change, divorce, Life Journeys, Nature, Personal Growth, Relationships, Spiritualism, Truth

    In 2012, nearly 7 tears ago, I returned to Canada after being away for 14 years.

    I was determined to make my dream come true.

    That dream started long before I even returned to Canada.

    My dream was to live close to nature and connect deeply with my inner self.

    I quit my job overseas, and came back home to make my dream a reality.

    7 years on I look back now and wonder, what the hell happened?!

    How can a dream I nurtured for so long, get lost?

    As I sit with the disappointment of an unrealized dream, I realize that not all is lost.

    Infact, quite the opposite.

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    How to Make a Good Decision When You Feel Stuck

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    Categories: Change, Life Journeys, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Do you have a BIG decision to make, right now?

    Are you feeling totally stuck and not able to make a decision yet know in your gut you HAVE to make this decision?

    Are you afraid that your decision will affect other people you love and that is stopping you from moving forward?

    Are you paralyzed by making a decision because you just don’t know what to do?

    If any of these statements relate to you at the moment, then this blog is for you!

    Read on and find out how to make a GOOD decision when you are feeling totally and utterly STUCK! 

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    Relationships are the Law of Attraction in Action!

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    Categories: Family, Law of Attraction, Love, Men and Women, Personal Growth, Relationships

    Do you sometimes struggle to connect with other people?

    Do relationships scare you?

    Do you doubt whether you can establish a healthy relationship with another person?

    Are you open to the fact that you learn a lot about yourself through your relationships with others?

    Would you like to make more sense out of the value of relationships and have better relationships?

    If any of these thoughts resonate with you, then read on my friend because we are going dive into the amazing and inspiring life challenge of relationships.

    I want to share with you how to think differently about your relationships so you can accept them for what they are; a beautiful evolutionary path to your deepest awakening and happiness.

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    Where Do You Stand When it Comes to Money?

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    Categories: Emotions, Family, Love, Money, Personal Growth, Relationships

    I like to share with you today a story about money.

    Money will honestly show you, who you really are.

    For example, how will you act when money comes your way?  Will it make you lose yourself? Will it distance you from your own blood?  Or will it bring you joy and connection with those around you?

    Money is a great and powerful catalyst.

    It can either enslave you or free you.

    I like to explore one side of money that is very sad but I offer it here so we can explore, how money can and will shape and change you my friend?

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    How to Find Your Dream Job and Change Your Career

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    Categories: Career, Life Journeys, Personal Growth

    Are you stuck in a job you don’t like or even hate?

    Want to change careers but don’t know just how to do that?

    Are you over 50 and just lost your job and need to find a new job?

    Are you feeling scared to make a big change in your career?

    Not sure what your purpose is in life and how to find your dream job?

    If any of these resonate with you read on my friend!

    My Crazy Career Path:

    My career journey has certainly had interesting curves along the way.

    I am a trained teacher and have taught for most of working career, however, I have diverged from that path several times over the years.  I certainly did not start out as a teacher.

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