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    The Secret to Loving Yourself More

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    Categories: Love, Personal Growth, Self Empowerment

    There are 3 Magic words that will bring healing, empowerment and living an authentic life into reality.

    I want to dive deeper into the steps to loving yourself more.

    These steps will move you towards freedom from self-judgement and form the need to please others.

    When we are ok with ourselves then we are ok with everything in our world.

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    Why Love Isn’t Enough

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    Categories: Emotions, Love, Personal Growth, Relationships

    Do you believe that ‘Love is all you need’ to be happy and feel fulfilled?

    Maybe you believe that ‘Love makes the world go round’?

    Have your previous love relationships been all you ever needed?

    I suspect not!

    Love isn’t enough to complete happiness. 

    Find out more by reading on.

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    How a Mountain of Money Can Make You Poor

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    Categories: Family, Love, Money

    I like to share with you today a story. It’s about how money makes you poor if you let it control you.

    Money is a form of energy.  How you handle money says a lot about how you handle your energy.

    Money is a great and powerful catalyst.

    It can either enslave you, move through you, or bring you the freedom to do and help as many people as you like.

    Here is a modern fairytale about a man who loved his money more than life itself.  

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    The Difference Between Self-Love and Self-Care

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    Categories: Love, Personal Growth, Self Empowerment

    Do you practise self-love or self-care?

    Ever wondered if there is actually a difference between the two?

    Do you ever feel that something is missing in your spiritual practice?

    There is actually a huge difference between self-love, self-care and self-indulgence.

    Being clear on the difference between these three practices will help you get your spiritual practice into more alignment with who you really are and move you forward more authentically.

    If you want a deeper spiritual practice, read on…

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    Self-Love, it’s OK to Be Selfish

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    Categories: Love, Personal Growth, Self Empowerment

    Are you doing your best to be healthy, spiritually aligned, do regular yoga and/or maybe even meditate?

    Do you feel that something is missing in your spiritual practice and you don’t quite know why?

    You have no doubt heard of how important it is to show yourself self-love.

    But, do you really know what self-love is?

    I use to think that self-love was going to the spa, pampering myself, and giving myself well-deserved treats, while I lost all sense of myself in a very stressful job.

    That is not self-love at all!

    Watch this video to get clear on the differences between self-love and self-indulgence and shift your focus from doing ‘stuff’ to connecting more deeply with the real you.

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    How to Attract a Woman. Take this Quiz.

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    Categories: Emotions, Love, Personal Growth

    If you would like to attract a woman, then if helps to be romantic.

    Even a little romance will go a long way.

    If you are romantic that will a long way, even if you feel you are not the most handsome guy. Because actually how you look doesn’t matter all that much.

    So take this quiz to find out if you got what it takes to attract a real woman to you.

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    I want to leave my partner, what should I do?

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    Categories: Emotions, Love, Relationships, Truth

    Are you thinking of leaving your relationship?

    Are you so frustrated with your wife or husband, boyfriend or girlfriend, or your partner that you just can’t imagine staying any longer?

    Are you at a breaking point?

    Have you considered leaving for some time now?

    If you are thinking of leaving your relationship, read this blog first!

    I have some advice on how to improve your relationship immediately AND from the inside out.

    I hope you are all ears… cause I wrote this post especially for YOU!

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    7 Things That Will Make You Irresistible to Men

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    Categories: Love, Men and Women, Relationships

    Want to know what makes you irresistible to men?  

    It isn’t what you may think!

    No need to buy anything! In fact, relax and just be yourself.

    Want to know what men really want… here it is!

    In order of importance none the less – you’re welcome!

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    6 Things Every Woman Wants From Her Man

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    Categories: Love, Men and Women, Relationships, Sexual Energy, Truth

    These are secrets that women tend to keep to themselves.

    I’m sharing this because I know you guys try your best to give your woman what she wants.  But at times it either falls short or falls totally off the mark.

    Listen up and be wiser for it and watch it transform your relationship.

    It isn’t easy being in a relationship, with the opposite sex.  Sure it goes amazingly well in the beginning, but when the fire dies down, reality sets in.

    Then what?

    It is super easy to get complacent.  Easy to let things go.

    Being in a relationship long term means being more than you ever thought you could be AND giving at least 60 % all the time.

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