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    A Gift for You this Christmas, Three Magic Words

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    Categories: Life Journeys, Love, Personal Growth, Relationships, Spiritualism, Truth

    I have so much gratitude to all my readers who have been supporting the message I have been writing about over the last year.

    As the holiday season approaches I want to share with you, this special gift.

    I want to share with you a little but powerful gem, that is the only way to truly live an empowered and authentic life.

    I’ve written about it in various ways, but to bring all those blogs down into three simple words, is my gift to you today.

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    Why Love Isn’t Enough

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    Categories: Change, Emotions, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Love, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Is it true that all you need in this life and this world is love and everything will fall into place?

    Will Love bring you happiness and fulfillment?

    In my experience, we need something much deeper than love to make the world a happier place and to make your life more fulfilling.

    If these statements were true, this world would be a much safer and happier place to be in.

    So what are we doing wrong?

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    Relationships are the Law of Attraction in Action!

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    Categories: Family, Law of Attraction, Love, Men and Women, Personal Growth, Relationships

    Do you sometimes struggle to connect with other people?

    Do relationships scare you?

    Do you doubt whether you can establish a healthy relationship with another person?

    Are you open to the fact that you learn a lot about yourself through your relationships with others?

    Would you like to make more sense out of the value of relationships and have better relationships?

    If any of these thoughts resonate with you, then read on my friend because we are going dive into the amazing and inspiring life challenge of relationships.

    I want to share with you how to think differently about your relationships so you can accept them for what they are; a beautiful evolutionary path to your deepest awakening and happiness.

    Read more…

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    Where Do You Stand When it Comes to Money?

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    Categories: Emotions, Family, Love, Money, Personal Growth, Relationships

    I like to share with you today a story about money.

    Money will honestly show you, who you really are.

    For example, how will you act when money comes your way?  Will it make you lose yourself? Will it distance you from your own blood?  Or will it bring you joy and connection with those around you?

    Money is a great and powerful catalyst.

    It can either enslave you or free you.

    I like to explore one side of money that is very sad but I offer it here so we can explore, how money can and will shape and change you my friend?

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    The Difference Between Self-Love and Self-Care

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    Categories: Life Journeys, Love, Personal Growth

    Do you practise self-love or self-care?

    Ever wondered if there is actually a difference between the two?

    Do you practise yoga, meditation, eat healthy, exercise and basically do whatever you can to stay healthy?

    Do you ever feel that something is missing in your spiritual practice?

    If so, then this blog post will be of interest to you.

    There is actually a huge difference between self-love and self-care.

    Being clear on the difference between these two practices will help you get your spiritual practice into more alignment with who you really are and move you forward more authentically.

    If you want a deeper spiritual practice, read on…

    But first, let’s look at… LOVE.

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    Self-Love versus Self-Indulgence

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    Categories: Life Journeys, Love, Personal Growth

    Are you doing your best to be healthy, spiritually aligned, do regular yoga and/or maybe even meditate?

    Do you feel that something is missing in your spiritual practice and you don’t quite know why?

    You have no doubt heard of how important it is to show yourself self-love.

    But, do you really know what self-love is?

    I use to think that self-love was going to the spa, pampering myself, and giving myself well-deserved treats, while I lost all sense of myself in a very stressful job.

    That is not self-love at all!

    Watch this video to get clear on the differences between self-love and self-indulgence and shift your focus from doing ‘stuff’ to connecting more deeply with the real you.

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    Are You Romantic?

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    Categories: Emotions, Love, Personal Growth

    Being romantic is very attractive!

    Romance is the spice of life.

    If you are looking for a partner or want to keep the flames burning with your current relationship, romance is the way to go!

    Take this short quiz to find out if you are romantic or if you need some work in this department.

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    I want to leave my partner, what should I do?

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    Categories: Emotions, Love, Relationships, Truth

    Are you thinking of leaving your relationship?

    Are you so frustrated with your wife or husband, boyfriend or girlfriend, or your partner that you just can’t imagine staying any longer?

    Are you at a breaking point?

    Have you considered leaving for some time now?

    If you are thinking of leaving your relationship, read this blog first!

    I have some advice on how to improve your relationship immediately AND from the inside out.

    I hope you are all ears… cause I wrote this post especially for YOU!

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    7 Things That Will Make You Irresistible to Men

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    Categories: Love, Men and Women, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Not too long ago, I wrote a popular blog called, ‘6 Things Every Woman Wants from her Man.’

    Since that post, men have been asking me to write one for them!

    This is a topic every man secretly wants you women out there to know.

    It isn’t what you may think, so stop what you are doing and focus on what really counts. No need to buy anything!

    Want to know what men really really want… here it is!

    In order of importance none the less – you’re welcome!

    1. Your Smile!

    Your smile is the most powerful tool you have, to get a man to notice you. Now a really good smile will show honestly what is going on inside of you.

    It isn’t something you can fake!

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    How to Rise Above Recurring Family Conflict

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    Categories: Emotions, Family, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Love, Relationships, Truth

    Family.

    I think it fair to say that we all have, at one time or another, drama in our family.

    Recurring issues and explosions can keep you stuck in a pattern that doesn’t help anyone, especially you.

    Are you currently disconnected from a family member or have been in the past?

    Are you struggling to come to terms with family relationships?

    Do you get so frustrated dealing with family that you have walked away, or even cut off relations with certain family members?

    Or maybe, you feel like an outsider in your own family?

    Hard as you have tried to fit in… your blood tribe just isn’t… your tribe.

    Can’t live with them…  can’t live without them!

    Family relations are perhaps the most challenging relationships we will ever deal with.

    Family can bring the best out of us and the worst.

    Why?

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    6 Things Every Woman Wants From Her Man

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    Categories: Love, Men and Women, Relationships, Sexual Energy, Truth

    These are secrets that women tend to keep to themselves.

    I’m sharing this because I know you guys try your best to give your woman what she wants.  But at times it either falls short or falls totally off the mark.

    Listen up and be wiser for it and watch it transform your relationship.

    It isn’t easy being in a relationship, with the opposite sex.  Sure it goes amazingly well in the beginning, but when the fire dies down, reality sets in.

    Then what?

    It is super easy to get complacent.  Easy to let things go.

    Being in a relationship long term means being more than you ever thought you could be AND giving at least 60 % all the time.

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    How to Feel Better After a Break Up

    Categories: Emotions, Law of Attraction, Love, Personal Growth, Relationships, Spiritualism, Truth

    Ever been dumped?

    Sure you have!

    Ever left a loved one?

    No matter which way you look at it, break ups are shitty.

    They hurt, often make you question your worthiness and they can make you feel very much rejected.

    You feel it, whether you are the one who was left, or you are the one who leaves.

    Leavers or lefters  … no matter which way you look at it, those emotions can feel REALLY uncomfortable and consuming.

    Yet, let’s get that all into perspective!

    You are gonna feel so much better after reading this!

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