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    Why Love Isn’t Enough

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    Categories: Change, Emotions, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Love, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Is it true that all you need in this life and this world is love and everything will fall into place?

    Will Love bring you happiness and fulfillment?

    In my experience, we need something much deeper than love to make the world a happier place and to make your life more fulfilling.

    If these statements were true, this world would be a much safer and happier place to be in.

    So what are we doing wrong?

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    Connecting with Nature and Why it Feels so Good!

    Categories: Career, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Nature, Personal Growth, Truth

    Want to know the best way to feel better almost instantly?

    Have you been for a walk in the forest recently?

    No matter how stressed you might be, getting out in nature will make you feel so much better.

    One of my most memorable careers with was training and working as a Junior geologist.

    Image walking through beautiful forests every day.

    The best part of this training was being able to see all the wild animals that live in the forest.

    Do you want to connect with something that will bring balance and peace into your life?

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    Reconnecting with a Life Dream, a very personal recount

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    Categories: Change, divorce, Life Journeys, Nature, Personal Growth, Relationships, Spiritualism, Truth

    In 2012, nearly 7 tears ago, I returned to Canada after being away for 14 years.

    I was determined to make my dream come true.

    That dream started long before I even returned to Canada.

    My dream was to live close to nature and connect deeply with my inner self.

    I quit my job overseas, and came back home to make my dream a reality.

    7 years on I look back now and wonder, what the hell happened?!

    How can a dream I nurtured for so long, get lost?

    As I sit with the disappointment of an unrealized dream, I realize that not all is lost.

    Infact, quite the opposite.

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    Why the Kavanaugh and Ford Case is a Win-Win!

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    Categories: Change, Emotions, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Men and Women, Truth

    Have you been following the Kavanaugh/Ford Case?

    Do you view this case as a huge win for women and a terrible injustice for men?

    What are your thoughts on this case?

    What is the best way to deal with cases of sexual harassment allegations that happened decades ago?

    Can you accept that the details actually don’t really matter at all?

    If you are open the idea that we are experiencing a massive energy shift through this case… then read on my friend.

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    How to Make a Good Decision When You Feel Stuck

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    Categories: Change, Life Journeys, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Do you have a BIG decision to make, right now?

    Are you feeling totally stuck and not able to make a decision yet know in your gut you HAVE to make this decision?

    Are you afraid that your decision will affect other people you love and that is stopping you from moving forward?

    Are you paralyzed by making a decision because you just don’t know what to do?

    If any of these statements relate to you at the moment, then this blog is for you!

    Read on and find out how to make a GOOD decision when you are feeling totally and utterly STUCK! 

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    How to Find Your Dream Job and Change Your Career

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    Categories: Career, Life Journeys, Personal Growth

    Are you stuck in a job you don’t like or even hate?

    Want to change careers but don’t know just how to do that?

    Are you over 50 and just lost your job and need to find a new job?

    Are you feeling scared to make a big change in your career?

    Not sure what your purpose is in life and how to find your dream job?

    If any of these resonate with you read on my friend!

    My Crazy Career Path:

    My career journey has certainly had interesting curves along the way.

    I am a trained teacher and have taught for most of working career, however, I have diverged from that path several times over the years.  I certainly did not start out as a teacher.

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    The Difference Between Self-Love and Self-Care

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    Categories: Life Journeys, Love, Personal Growth

    Do you practise self-love or self-care?

    Ever wondered if there is actually a difference between the two?

    Do you practise yoga, meditation, eat healthy, exercise and basically do whatever you can to stay healthy?

    Do you ever feel that something is missing in your spiritual practice?

    If so, then this blog post will be of interest to you.

    There is actually a huge difference between self-love and self-care.

    Being clear on the difference between these two practices will help you get your spiritual practice into more alignment with who you really are and move you forward more authentically.

    If you want a deeper spiritual practice, read on…

    But first, let’s look at… LOVE.

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    Self-Love versus Self-Indulgence

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    Categories: Life Journeys, Love, Personal Growth

    Are you doing your best to be healthy, spiritually aligned, do regular yoga and/or maybe even meditate?

    Do you feel that something is missing in your spiritual practice and you don’t quite know why?

    You have no doubt heard of how important it is to show yourself self-love.

    But, do you really know what self-love is?

    I use to think that self-love was going to the spa, pampering myself, and giving myself well-deserved treats, while I lost all sense of myself in a very stressful job.

    That is not self-love at all!

    Watch this video to get clear on the differences between self-love and self-indulgence and shift your focus from doing ‘stuff’ to connecting more deeply with the real you.

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    How to Rise Above Recurring Family Conflict

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    Categories: Emotions, Family, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Love, Relationships, Truth

    Family.

    I think it fair to say that we all have, at one time or another, drama in our family.

    Recurring issues and explosions can keep you stuck in a pattern that doesn’t help anyone, especially you.

    Are you currently disconnected from a family member or have been in the past?

    Are you struggling to come to terms with family relationships?

    Do you get so frustrated dealing with family that you have walked away, or even cut off relations with certain family members?

    Or maybe, you feel like an outsider in your own family?

    Hard as you have tried to fit in… your blood tribe just isn’t… your tribe.

    Can’t live with them…  can’t live without them!

    Family relations are perhaps the most challenging relationships we will ever deal with.

    Family can bring the best out of us and the worst.

    Why?

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    What to Do When You Feel Totally Stuck

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    Categories: Emotions, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Personal Growth, Truth

    Are you seeing a pattern repeating itself in your life?

    Is this a pattern you’d really rather NOT see again and again?

    The characters, places and circumstances change, yet it’s the same old pattern that keeps showing up.

    Have you ever had the uncomfortable feeling that you have ‘been here before’?

    Do you know the changes you need to make .. but you keep talking yourself out of it?

    Does the thought of change send shivers down your spine?

    Well fellow traveller through life, if any of this strikes a chord, then come and take a journey with me and get yourself movin’ and groovin’ again.

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    The Truth about Truth

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    Categories: Emotions, Family, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Love, Personal Growth, Relationships, Truth

    Want to get to know who you really are?

    Want to know the ONE thing that brings all things together in your life?

    Want to know how to heal yourself?

    Want to know how to live a more empowered life?

    Want to be REAL!?

    Read on to find out more about the one thing that WILL alter your life for the better and… even bring our world into alignment.

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    How to Move Through Grief

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    Categories: Emotions, Law of Attraction, Life Journeys, Personal Growth, Relationships

    Are you totally stuck in grief?

    Can’t see beyond the pain or even the next day?

    If you have ever lost someone near and dear to you whether it is a person or pet, you will be all too familiar with the consuming feeling of grief.

    Grief in one sense can seem so unfair, rob us our happiness, leave us with regret and maybe even guilt.

    On the other hand, if we think differently about grief, it can open the door to new possibilities and new energy, as well as a new and more empowering understanding of life. 

    There is no doubt Grief is a POWERFUL emotion and if you have ever experienced it then you will find this blog really enlightening. 

    Grief is a problem only when you we get stuck there for too long and can’t move past it.

    If you are struggling with grief, read on, this post will help you look at thighs … differently.

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